Laxmi Real Story: Born in Maharashtra, to a Brahmin Family. The Doctor marked her as Male on the birth certificate, as a child, s/he had difficulty in seeking society’s approval. Afraid of going to the washroom as a teenager, her feminity was in danger. She said, “In the Bhagwat Geeta I am only a man, but rest is female”. Her journey has been to impart these lessons and surpass the unorthodox mentality and get equal rights for the transgender community
Laxmi has been a contestant in the 5th season of the famous reality show Big Boss, famous for her expensive Sarees and jewelry in fashion shows, and now streaming movie Laxmii
“Laxmi, when did you realize you were different?”
“Hallelujah! I was never different.” Laxmi Narayan Tripathi was born in 1978 in a Brahmin family in Maharashtra. She belongs to the oldest ethnic transgender community known as the Hijra community. Being one of India’s most high-profile transgender activists she has been fighting for equal rights for the transgender and Hijra community for more than 20 years now.
There are many trans children who are abandoned because of their gender and left to beg on streets while most of them end up commodifying their bodies for survival. Laxmi was fortunate enough to be born in a family that accepted her the way she was. But she never misused her privileges. Instead she used them to uplift herself and her community members by making their voices heard.
Besides a transgender rights activist, she is a dancer, actress and Acharya Mahamandaleshwar. She was the first transgender to represent Asia Pacific at the UN task meeting in 2008 and represented the region again at the 20th international AIDS conference in Melbourne.
She works with numerous NGOs to promote the equality of trans individuals. In 2014 she was one of the several petitioners in the Supreme Court’s landmark judgement recognizing the third gender. She is the subject of two books, Me hijra me Laxmi and Red lipstick the men in my life.
Laxmi Real Life Story
“I embraced the identity of hijra deliberately; it was a conscious choice I made, one that not too many understood. Why, after all, would a male child belonging to an affluent, upright Brahmin family initiate himself into a cult, a tradition, a section of society that’s much reviled by the mainstream? Why, indeed?”
Laxmi’s life has not been easy. She has gone through all that you can think of. But she was more than those derogatory terms and humiliating questions and gladly she knew it. Not many in her community are given enough opportunities to discover their worth due to which they tend to internalize the stereotypical beliefs of the society.
The moment she accepted herself and got comfortable in her skin is the moment she realized her worth. With the help of right knowledge she learnt to fight back. By answering every question she empowered herself and proved her significance in the society and its matters.
It is okay to go beyond the boundaries sometimes because that is when you’re paid attention to. In order to get her rights recognized she crossed every boundary and fought until she won. This attitude of hers helped her entire community to uplift themselves and realize their worth. Her positivity made her vision so clear that she could see even the abnormal things in the most normal fashion.
Acceptance demands an open mindset and an open heart. It’s hard to be different but if we look at the bigger picture difference is what makes you rare.
Laxmi’s ideologies are capable of changing lives
She believes one has all the rights to choose who s/he wants to be known or seen as and others must respect it. Some choices are hard to make but harder to accept. However surrendering yourself is not an option. Laxmi had a hard time fitting into this world but she never thought of quitting. She never surrendered herself because she knew that she was a source of inspiration to many.
In most of her speeches she has mentioned the significance of belonging somewhere. The grief of not being loved, wanted or considered is the hardest to deal with and belonging to such a community she couldn’t have understood the situation better. Had she not been so strong and ambitious she wouldn’t have been able to achieve her goals.
Sources say the transgender activist Laxmi Narayan Tripathy’s participation (to #LaxxmiBomb ) was solicited in making #AkshayKumar ’s transgender transformation not just entertainment, but rather a movement towards an acceptance of the third sex in the mainstream – BH pic.twitter.com/6r7dUjsBPu
— Akshay Kumar Italy fans (@akkikumaritaly) October 13, 2020
She hardly complains about her experiences and rather use them as a lesson in her battles. By not letting her emotions overpower her decisions she has set an example of everything it takes to be a hero. She inspires not only her community members but everyone who fears raising his/her voice against injustice.
What makes her different is not her gender. It is her mindset. One thought holds the power to change this world and Laxmi is one of those people who use their thoughts as swords in the battlefield.
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